soften somebody/something ↔ up phrasal verb (
see also soften)
1. informal to be nice to someone before you ask them to do something, so that they will agree to help you:
She was just softening me up.2. to make an enemy weaker so that they are easier to attack:
Use artillery to soften up the enemy forces.3. to make something less hard or rough
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